Okay, Mike and Jarcaines, time to call a truce as I've seen both sides of the argument and can say I've seen some of each.
To Mike's comments:
1) I will agree that there is a large group that expects, from the get-go, the same pay,benefits and respect from a job as someone that's been on the job for 15+ years. I see it quite often at work myself.
2) I know of people that have been given cars by parents due to graduating from school or other reasons
3) Many of the new people in the work force expect to be told what to do or have others do their job and get paid for it. Again, I see it quite often
4) Many can't put down their smart phones/Ipods/tablets, a vast majority due to being addicted to the media
Now, to Jarcaine's comments:
1) Yes, the hobby is time and money intensive, relatively speaking
2) No, the hobby isn't really family friendly for several reasons
3) Family time has become more important since the world has gotten more dangerous, just for starters
4) Cash doesn't go as far due to inflation
NOW IT'S MY TURN
1) The group that expects everything to be handed to them normally gets a very rude awakening. When one comes into my work area, it's either figure it out yourself or I fail you. I don't care if that person is a 40 year employee or one with 6 months. In many fields, that way of thinking holds true, do the work or lose the job.
2) As I said, many were given new cars, but what most are also given is the responsibility that comes with them. Most are given the task of paying the monthly payments, insurance, gas and maintenance or they lose the car. It's a very small minority that are given a new car that's got a clear title. I many cases, the person that was given a free car also worked for their parents. Hell, in my case, my father cosigned a loan for a car(the catch being that he had to approve of the car first) under the restriction that if I missed one loan or insurance payment, he got the car. Needless to say, it was paid off several months early.
3) Since many races, in my area anyway, take place at a park, whey can't a family day out be added to a race? Dad only needs to be away from the family for the driver's meeting and heats. The rest of the day, he can spend with the family. This would also give mom and the kids a chance to watch dad race a few times during the day. I know, in the case of my wife, when she's gone with me and we've had the camp trailer, if she didn't want to watch the races, she'd go in and watch a movie. She had a day to relax away from the house so it was all good.
4) CASH!!! This is the biggest issue with many. No, it doesn't go as far even though many of us make more per hour than what our parents did. This is actually a very simple to solve problem. Each month, everyone has a set of bills to pay. There's the additional costs of food and gas for the cars. The wife and I, when we got together made a simple basic rule to allow me to be in the hobby. Plain and simple, the bills due for that payday had to be paid, the gas tanks had to be filled and we had to have food in the house. After that, I could spend part of what was left on the boats or going to races. If the cash wasn't available, I don't get to buy for the boats or go to the races, plain and simple. Obviously, this is made easier due to the fact we don't have any kids but, that being said, it's still a workable solution to the cash issue
5) Now we come to everyone's favorite item to blame: SMART PHONES AND MEDIA!!!!!!!!!!!
What many don't realize is this is not just an issue of time use or wasting. In most cases, it's actually an addiction that has built up and it will actually take an intervention to break it. What's even worse is it's something that we do to ourselves without even knowing it. As bad as this sounds, I'm going to blame the parents for this. When you look at how many of the kids have smart phones with them everywhere, usually with unlimited text and internet access, apps for almost everything and their social life tied to it's memory, how can they not become addicted. The phone lets them communicate with others "covertly", does their homework, lets them take pictures and post them to anyone of several "LOOK AT ME!!!!!!!!" sites(can we say Twitter, Facebook, etc) where they base their social status on how many hits, likes or friend requests they get in return. As the kids get older and the addiction gets stronger, these little electronic marvels become as important to the one using it as cocaine or alcohol is to an addict, they have to have it. You want to get the kids interested in other things, QUIT ENABLING THEM AND TAKE THE ELECTRONICS AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!