Makes perfect sense,,,, when you said they were non sparking connectors, I was wondering " how are they doing that" ?
My next question to you was going to be about possible resistors or capaciors connected within the wiring.
There must be a different material that is used for the first part of the contact or an internal resistor built into the plugs that allows the connection to be made with out the spark.
I remember when we did competition car stereo systems, when reconnecting the batteries, I had to use a resistor on the last cable to allow the sub woofer amp capacitors to slowly charge.
Otherwise the battery cable would sound like a shotgun blast when it made contact...