David,
No. The front (small) bearing should NOT need pressed onto the front (smaller) diameter of the crank. This should be a slip fit. The flywheel cone should lock onto the inner race of the bearing when you tighten your flywheel nut/collet on the crank. At this point, the only end play you should have would be that which the front bearing is allowing, which shouldn't be more than a thousandth or two. If you are getting more than that, then I'd suggest that either the bearing is junk or the flywheel cone is clamping onto the crank diameter and not the inner race of the bearing.
FWIW... Under ideal conditions, the rear (big) bearing is merely along for the ride, to support the load of compression/combustion, and does nothing as far as controlling or affecting end play.
Thanks. Brad.
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