Are you
SURE you want my opinion?
It is due to the historic lack of adequate moderation on the Red board, where most FE boaters "learned" to play together on-line. A few posters there realized that there were virtually no consequences for bad behavior, bad manners, poor judgement, etc. so they indulged themselves like spoiled children. They then brought those practices to other boards, with predictable results.
There are threads here that
should have been deleted by moderators right after they started, with warnings to those who behaved badly. Those warnings need to followed up with suspensions if the violators repeat.
That is the way to stop bad behavior, a firm stand and zero tolerence. Few moderators will do that.
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