A #14 awg is a great size for making jumper wires. The fine strand silicone wire is extra special for this purpose.
You usually want to use a bare nickel plated steel ring terminal. Strip wire to just pass through the barrel. Then slide a 1" piece of heat shrink tube up the wire and insert in barrel and crimp so tip is just poking through. Then with a very hot soldering iron and solder dipped in flux heat that tip sticking through with a fast tack to terminal trying to prevent the solder from wicking through the barrel. Then slide your heat shrink up and shrink it over your connection.
The gap is probably not the problem. Too little it would be hitting and you should be able to feel, hear and see if it was. You can't hardly jack it up so far away that it won't fire.
Even with a sheared key you will have spark. Of course it won't run because not firing at the correct time but you will still have the spark.
Be aware even with a normal spark it can be difficult to see from these weak ignitions especially in direct sunlight.
These coils I make up juice it up quite a bit,
They wanna end up looking like this. Get them right and they last quite a while. If you don't do a good job they will fail regularly.